Most people in the world will get married sooner or later. Unfortunately, many couples separate due to reasons that are often caused by miscommunication. I idolize my parents for being intact in the many years of being together. They have been married for 31 years now. I grabbed the chance last week to ask my parents what's their "secret". They said there was no secret but they gave some tips they have been doing.
Here are some tips:
1. Trust your partner
-It is very useless to spend your life doubting your partner. Why? Does anyone wants to hesitate for the rest of their lives?
2. Learn it with your partner
-Everyday is learning experience. Learning with a partner doubles the knowledge.
3. Respect your partner
-If you pay respect to others why not give it to someone you want to spend the rest of your life?
4. It's "WE" not "ME", it's "OURS" not "MINE"
-You made a promise in the community and in God to willfully bind yourselves. Therefore you must learn to practice the give and take attitude. Be open to your partner. Never hide things from him/her.
5. God-centered relationship
-Our lives are borrowed from God. Getting married is just a step forward in a person's life. All things should be dedicated to him.
These things are hard to follow but there's no harm in following.
It's great indeed to find that someone who you can't think of not being with for a long time - perhaps forever. :)
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